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Anger turned inward becomes shame and shoulds
anger
shame
shoulds
emotional-repression
childhood
Attachment is bigger than traumatic events
attachment
trauma
childhood
development
Being seen is a survival need we villainize
being-seen
survival
shame
childhood
Childhood criticism teaches you not to trust yourself
childhood
self-trust
criticism
parenting
procrastination
Anger repression gets installed through three childhood pathways
anger
childhood
repression
patterns
Codependence comes from not owning your wants
wants
codependence
relationships
childhood
core-teaching
Doubt originates from childhood patterns of self-blame when others got angry
doubt
childhood
patterns
anger
self-blame
Humility can require self-care
humility
self-care
boundaries
childhood
Imposter syndrome is rooted in conditional love from childhood
imposter-syndrome
shame
childhood
conditional-love
Passive aggression develops when direct anger is forbidden
passive-aggression
anger
childhood
adaptation
Perfectionism originates as a childhood safety strategy
perfectionism
survival
childhood
safety
Safety beliefs are inherited from parents
safety
childhood
parents
money
belief-systems
The scapegoat holds the family shadow
family-systems
scapegoat
childhood
identity
Self-regulation should be core curriculum
education
self-regulation
childhood
aces
society
Shame arises after feeling good as a learned pattern
shame
joy
patterns
childhood
The stone-faced baby experiment shows how suppression is transmitted
attunement
childhood
emotional-suppression
stone-faced-baby
Stress addiction reproduces your childhood emotional environment
stress
addiction
childhood
identity
emotions
Suppressed layers beneath the presenting issue reveal the whole self
emotions
layers
suppression
childhood
The story you carry about your wound may not be the full truth
narrative
healing
childhood
perception
Theta programming shapes adult reality
childhood
programming
neuroscience
family-dynamics
Healing requires untangling what was wired together with love in childhood
love
childhood
healing
patterns
wiring
We're attracted to what we learned as love
relationships
attraction
childhood
patterns
core-teaching
Welcoming childhood hurt expands capacity to love
welcoming
hurt
childhood
love
capacity