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16 items with this tag.
Abuse creates either the endurer or the perpetual victim
trauma
abuse
self-reliance
Apologizing for disempowering people undoes the self-reliance loop
self-reliance
apology
responsibility
practice
Compulsive giving is a self-reliance strategy to avoid receiving
self-reliance
giving
receiving
coaching
caretaking
Helplessness dissolves false self-reliance
helplessness
self-reliance
vulnerability
core-teaching
Owning your authority with an open heart heals the authority wound
authority
certainty
self-reliance
leadership
Self-reliance can be a form of intimacy avoidance
self-reliance
intimacy
relationships
patterns
abandonment
Self-reliance blocks the ability to receive support
self-reliance
receiving
vulnerability
leadership
Self-reliance comes from a childhood where you took care of your parents
self-reliance
parentification
childhood
blame
Self-reliance is a defense against helplessness
self-reliance
helplessness
defense-mechanisms
abandonment
Self-reliance is an illusion at every level
self-reliance
interdependence
society
illusion
Suppressed wants protect you from the grief of unmet childhood needs
wants
grief
self-reliance
suppression
Taking responsibility for others' happiness disempowers them
self-reliance
responsibility
disempowerment
boundaries
The fantasy of perfect help guarantees you stay alone
self-reliance
help
fantasy
loneliness
Unmet needs create compulsive self-reliance
needs
survival-strategies
self-reliance
relationships
Vulnerability invites the support self-reliance blocks
vulnerability
self-reliance
support
transformation
Simultaneously wanting and refusing help creates stagnation
stuck
help
self-reliance
resistance