The critical voice in your head acts like an authority figure. The freedom you have with your internal authority—whether you can listen selectively, say “no thanks” to unhelpful criticism, and follow your own guidance—is exactly how you’ll treat authorities in your external life.
“The critical voice in the head often acts like an authority figure, and as you don’t buy into it, your reflection in the world is that you don’t buy into the authority outside either.”
If you’re enslaved to your inner critic, you’ll either be enslaved to external authority (approval-seeking) or in constant war with it (rebellion). If you’ve learned to relate to your inner voice with discernment—“you’ve got some good things to say, but I’m not going to listen to that part”—you’ll relate to external authorities the same way.
The resolution of authority issues starts inside.
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