Will Chesney describes the moment his decline began: “I had made it to the pinnacle and I just kind of started partying more and drinking more and stopped caring as much about my personal growth.” While his teammates were doing college courses, getting black belts, reading books, and raising families — growing — he was drinking and living off past accomplishments.
Joe sees this pattern everywhere: CEOs who feel finished, spiritual seekers who think they’ve awakened. The moment you believe you’ve arrived, corrosion begins. A world-class cricket player captured it precisely: his career skyrocketed when he was thinking “how do I improve myself” and crashed when he switched to “how do I maintain.”
“I stopped growing as a person. Once I got there, that’s where the ego comes into play. I had thought I had made it to the pinnacle.”
The ego manifests not as arrogance necessarily, but as a quiet certainty: “I have everything, I know everything, there’s nothing else I need to do. I’m fine. I’m here. I made it.” This feeling of completeness is the beginning of the fall.
Related Concepts
- Every epiphany is a rut waiting to happen
- Awakening is not an endpoint
- Ego resists change in either direction
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