Limiting beliefs don’t exist in isolation — they form a lattice work of interconnected beliefs that reinforce each other and hold behavioral patterns in place. When you see through one belief but behavior doesn’t change, it’s because the lattice hasn’t been fully seen.
Joe illustrates this with a layoff scenario: the surface belief “what’s happening is wrong” connects to “I don’t like what’s happening” which connects to “change is hard” which connects to “change is unsafe” which connects to “I’ll be punished” (because change in childhood meant yelling or anxiety), which ultimately connects to “I’m bad.” This fractal-like structure means working on just one belief may produce no visible change — you need to see the whole web.
The lattice can contain different emotions at different layers — anger in one belief, fear in another, shame at the root. This is why the emotional component is so important: the lattice isn’t purely cognitive, it’s held together by unfelt emotional experiences at multiple levels. Ultimately, many lattice structures trace back to the same core beliefs: “I’m bad,” “I’m unsafe,” or even the fundamental fact of existing as a self that needs protection.
Related Concepts
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